Family Law & Mediation  |  Washington, DC and Maryland
Office hours: Monday to Friday, 9 am to 6 pm(202) 505-6877
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Mediation

A private path to agreement.

Divorce and custody mediation, mediation advocacy, and collaborative law for families who want to resolve matters with dignity.

Resolution without a courtroom fight

Mediation offers a private, structured path to agreement outside the courtroom. It is often faster and less costly than litigation, and it keeps decisions about your family in your hands rather than a judge's.

Kristina M. Darwood is a trained mediator and collaborative law professional. We help clients decide whether mediation fits their situation, advise them through the process, and make sure any agreement protects their interests.

Who this is for

Couples who want to resolve divorce or custody issues privately, and clients who want an advocate beside them during mediation.

What you gain

More control over the outcome, lower cost, and less conflict for your family.

What We Handle

Mediation services

Divorce mediation

Working through property, support, and the terms of your divorce in confidential sessions.

Custody and parenting mediation

Building a parenting plan together, with your children's needs at the center.

Mediation advocacy

Representing and advising you through mediation so your interests are protected.

Collaborative divorce

Each spouse has counsel, and everyone commits to settling outside of court.

Agreement review and drafting

Independent review of proposed agreements before you sign.

Court-referred mediation

Guidance when a DC or Maryland court refers your case to mediation.

Paths to Resolution

Three ways forward. A firm fluent in all of them.

Most private

Mediation

A neutral mediator helps both parties reach their own agreement in confidential sessions. Often the fastest and least costly route.

Best suited for spouses who can still communicate and want to control the outcome.
Most supported

Collaborative Law

Each spouse has their own attorney, and everyone commits to settling outside of court, with financial and family specialists as needed.

Best suited for complex finances or co-parenting where both sides want advocacy without litigation.
Most protective

Litigation

When agreement is not possible or safety is at stake, the court decides. We prepare every case as though it will be tried.

Best suited for high conflict, emergency custody, or an uncooperative spouse.

The Process

How mediation works

  1. 1

    Consultation

    We assess whether mediation fits your situation, including any safety concerns or power imbalances.

  2. 2

    Mediation sessions

    Structured, confidential sessions work through property, support, and parenting issues one at a time.

  3. 3

    Written understanding

    The terms you reach are summarized in writing so nothing is lost or misunderstood.

  4. 4

    Attorney review

    Each party is encouraged to have independent counsel review the proposed agreement before signing.

  5. 5

    Final agreement

    The signed agreement is finalized and, where required, submitted to the court.

DC & Maryland

Mediation in the District and in Maryland

District of Columbia

  • The Multi-Door Dispute Resolution Division of DC Superior Court offers family mediation.
  • Many custody disputes are referred to mediation before trial.

Maryland

  • Circuit courts may order mediation of custody and visitation disputes.
  • Mediation is not ordered where there is a genuine issue of abuse.

General information only, not legal advice.

5-Star Google Review
“The services I received from Ms. Darwood were personal and impeccable. She represented my best interests in the most professional way. I was pleased with her courtroom presence, response time whenever I called, and the services overall were outstanding! Thank you Kristina!”
Tamara C.  /  Family LawClient reviews reflect individual experiences. Prior results do not guarantee a similar outcome.

Questions

Mediation FAQ

Is mediation binding?

Mediation itself is not binding. If you reach agreement, the terms are written up, and once signed and approved where required, the agreement becomes enforceable.

Do I need a lawyer if we are mediating?

A mediator is neutral and cannot give either party legal advice. Having your own attorney advise you, or review the agreement before you sign, helps protect your interests.

Is mediation right if there has been abuse?

Mediation may not be appropriate where there is a history of abuse or a significant power imbalance. We will help you choose a safe path.

Insights

Related reading

Mediation  /  Explainer

Mediation or Collaborative Divorce? How to Choose the Right Path for Your Family

Coming soon
Custody  /  Guide

Emergency Custody in DC and Maryland: What Qualifies and How Quickly It Moves

Coming soon
Divorce  /  Guide

Dividing Retirement Accounts and the Family Home in a Maryland Divorce

Coming soon

Private Consultation

Explore a private path to agreement.

Share a few details and we will contact you within one business day to arrange a time. In-person, phone, and video consultations are available.

Schedule a Private ConsultationCall (202) 505-6877Free 30-minute initial consultation
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Practice / Mediation

Mediation

A private path to agreement.

Divorce and custody mediation, mediation advocacy, and collaborative law.

Schedule a Private Consultation

Mediation

Resolution without a courtroom fight

Mediation offers a private, structured path to agreement outside the courtroom. It is often faster and less costly than litigation, and it keeps decisions about your family in your hands rather than a judge's.

Kristina M. Darwood is a trained mediator and collaborative law professional. We help clients decide whether mediation fits their situation, advise them through the process, and make sure any agreement protects their interests.

Who this is for

Couples who want to resolve divorce or custody issues privately, and clients who want an advocate beside them during mediation.

What you gain

More control over the outcome, lower cost, and less conflict for your family.

Paths to Resolution

Three ways forward.

MediationA neutral mediator helps both parties reach their own agreement in confidential sessions. Often the fastest and least costly route.
Collaborative LawEach spouse has their own attorney, and everyone commits to settling outside of court, with financial and family specialists as needed.
LitigationWhen agreement is not possible or safety is at stake, the court decides. We prepare every case as though it will be tried.

The Process

How mediation works

01

Consultation

We assess whether mediation fits your situation, including any safety concerns or power imbalances.

02

Mediation sessions

Structured, confidential sessions work through property, support, and parenting issues one at a time.

03

Written understanding

The terms you reach are summarized in writing so nothing is lost or misunderstood.

04

Attorney review

Each party is encouraged to have independent counsel review the proposed agreement before signing.

05

Final agreement

The signed agreement is finalized and, where required, submitted to the court.

DC & Maryland

Mediation in both jurisdictions

District of Columbia

  • The Multi-Door Dispute Resolution Division of DC Superior Court offers family mediation.
  • Many custody disputes are referred to mediation before trial.

Maryland

  • Circuit courts may order mediation of custody and visitation disputes.
  • Mediation is not ordered where there is a genuine issue of abuse.

General information only, not legal advice.

Client Reviews

In their words.

5-Star Google Review
“Kristina is extremely professional and emotionally balanced, which is the type of lawyer needed when trying to navigate a divorce. She ensures that you are clear on all the possible outcomes, and tactfully creates optimism when you get overwhelmed and start to have doubts about your case. I am grateful that I had her by my side during this process.”
Sean C.  /  Divorce
5-Star Google Review
“Kristina was great to work with, and I was very fortunate to have found her. This process is painful irrespectively, and Kristina made this as smooth as possible. She’s very responsive, knowledgeable, and easy to work with. I highly recommend her.”
David D.  /  Family Law
5-Star Google Review
“The services I received from Ms. Darwood were personal and impeccable. She represented my best interests in the most professional way. I was pleased with her courtroom presence, response time whenever I called, and the services overall were outstanding! Thank you Kristina!”
Tamara C.  /  Family Law

Client reviews reflect individual experiences. Prior results do not guarantee a similar outcome.

Questions

Mediation FAQ

Is mediation binding?

Mediation itself is not binding. If you reach agreement, the terms are written up, and once signed and approved where required, the agreement becomes enforceable.

Do I need a lawyer if we are mediating?

A mediator is neutral and cannot give either party legal advice. Having your own attorney advise you, or review the agreement before you sign, helps protect your interests.

Is mediation right if there has been abuse?

Mediation may not be appropriate where there is a history of abuse or a significant power imbalance. We will help you choose a safe path.

Private Consultation

Explore a private path to agreement.

We respond within one business day. In-person, phone, and video consultations available.

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