Family Law & Mediation  |  Washington, DC and Maryland
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Frequently Asked Questions

Clear answers to difficult questions.

General information about divorce, custody, child support, and mediation in Maryland and DC, and about working with our firm. Every family's situation is different; a consultation is the best way to understand yours.

01Divorce

Do we have to be separated before filing for divorce?

It depends on where you file and the grounds. DC and Maryland both allow no-fault divorce, and some grounds require a period of separation while others do not. We will explain which options fit your situation at your consultation.

How long does a divorce take?

An uncontested divorce with a complete settlement agreement can move relatively quickly. Contested cases involving custody or significant assets can take a year or longer, depending on the issues in dispute and the court's schedule.

How is marital property divided?

Both DC and Maryland divide marital property equitably, which means fairly but not necessarily equally. Courts consider factors such as each spouse's contributions, the length of the marriage, and each spouse's economic circumstances.

Will I have to go to court?

Not necessarily. Many divorces resolve through negotiation or mediation, with the court approving the final agreement. If agreement is not possible, we prepare your case thoroughly for trial.

02Child Custody

What is the difference between legal and physical custody?

Legal custody is the authority to make major decisions for your child, such as healthcare, schooling, and religious upbringing. Physical custody refers to where the child lives and the daily care arrangements.

What qualifies as an emergency custody situation?

Generally, a situation in which a child faces an immediate risk of harm. Courts can act quickly in these cases. If your child is in danger, contact law enforcement first, then call us.

Can a custody order be changed?

Yes. A parent can ask the court to modify custody when there has been a material change in circumstances and the change serves the child's best interests.

At what age can my child choose where to live?

Neither DC nor Maryland sets an age at which a child decides. Courts may consider the preferences of a child who is mature enough, as one factor among many.

03Child Support

How is child support calculated?

Both jurisdictions use statutory guidelines based on the parents' incomes, the parenting schedule, and costs such as health insurance and work-related childcare.

Can child support be modified?

Yes, when there has been a material change in circumstances, such as a significant change in income or in the parenting schedule. Changes generally apply from the date a request is filed, so it is important to act promptly.

What if the other parent does not pay?

Courts have several enforcement tools, which may include wage withholding and contempt proceedings. We can help you pursue unpaid support.

04Mediation

Is mediation binding?

Mediation itself is not binding. If you reach agreement, the terms are written up, and once signed and approved where required, the agreement becomes enforceable.

Do I need a lawyer if we are mediating?

A mediator is neutral and cannot give either party legal advice. Having your own attorney advise you, or review the agreement before you sign, helps protect your interests.

Is mediation right if there has been abuse?

Mediation may not be appropriate where there is a history of abuse or a significant power imbalance. We will help you choose a safe path.

05Working With Our Firm

Will I work directly with a partner?

Yes. Every client works directly with a founding partner, Kristina M. Darwood or Nyree Adams.

Do you offer virtual consultations?

Yes. We meet with clients in person at our Washington, DC office and virtually by video or phone. Office hours are Monday through Friday, 9 am to 6 pm.

Is what I share with you confidential?

Communications with our attorneys are confidential. Please avoid sharing sensitive details through the website form until we have spoken.

06Fees & Consultations

How much does a consultation cost?

Your initial consultation is free. It lasts about 30 minutes and can take place in person or virtually.

How are fees structured?

Fees depend on the type and complexity of your matter. We discuss fee arrangements openly at your free consultation, before any work begins, so there are no surprises.

Private Consultation

Begin with a confidential conversation.

Share a few details and we will contact you within one business day to arrange a time. In-person, phone, and video consultations are available.

Schedule a Private ConsultationCall (202) 505-6877Free 30-minute initial consultation
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01Divorce

Do we have to be separated before filing for divorce?

It depends on where you file and the grounds. DC and Maryland both allow no-fault divorce, and some grounds require a period of separation while others do not. We will explain which options fit your situation at your consultation.

How long does a divorce take?

An uncontested divorce with a complete settlement agreement can move relatively quickly. Contested cases involving custody or significant assets can take a year or longer, depending on the issues in dispute and the court's schedule.

How is marital property divided?

Both DC and Maryland divide marital property equitably, which means fairly but not necessarily equally. Courts consider factors such as each spouse's contributions, the length of the marriage, and each spouse's economic circumstances.

Will I have to go to court?

Not necessarily. Many divorces resolve through negotiation or mediation, with the court approving the final agreement. If agreement is not possible, we prepare your case thoroughly for trial.

02Child Custody

What is the difference between legal and physical custody?

Legal custody is the authority to make major decisions for your child, such as healthcare, schooling, and religious upbringing. Physical custody refers to where the child lives and the daily care arrangements.

What qualifies as an emergency custody situation?

Generally, a situation in which a child faces an immediate risk of harm. Courts can act quickly in these cases. If your child is in danger, contact law enforcement first, then call us.

Can a custody order be changed?

Yes. A parent can ask the court to modify custody when there has been a material change in circumstances and the change serves the child's best interests.

At what age can my child choose where to live?

Neither DC nor Maryland sets an age at which a child decides. Courts may consider the preferences of a child who is mature enough, as one factor among many.

03Child Support

How is child support calculated?

Both jurisdictions use statutory guidelines based on the parents' incomes, the parenting schedule, and costs such as health insurance and work-related childcare.

Can child support be modified?

Yes, when there has been a material change in circumstances, such as a significant change in income or in the parenting schedule. Changes generally apply from the date a request is filed, so it is important to act promptly.

What if the other parent does not pay?

Courts have several enforcement tools, which may include wage withholding and contempt proceedings. We can help you pursue unpaid support.

04Mediation

Is mediation binding?

Mediation itself is not binding. If you reach agreement, the terms are written up, and once signed and approved where required, the agreement becomes enforceable.

Do I need a lawyer if we are mediating?

A mediator is neutral and cannot give either party legal advice. Having your own attorney advise you, or review the agreement before you sign, helps protect your interests.

Is mediation right if there has been abuse?

Mediation may not be appropriate where there is a history of abuse or a significant power imbalance. We will help you choose a safe path.

05Working With Our Firm

Will I work directly with a partner?

Yes. Every client works directly with a founding partner, Kristina M. Darwood or Nyree Adams.

Do you offer virtual consultations?

Yes. We meet with clients in person at our Washington, DC office and virtually by video or phone. Office hours are Monday through Friday, 9 am to 6 pm.

Is what I share with you confidential?

Communications with our attorneys are confidential. Please avoid sharing sensitive details through the website form until we have spoken.

06Fees & Consultations

How much does a consultation cost?

Your initial consultation is free. It lasts about 30 minutes and can take place in person or virtually.

How are fees structured?

Fees depend on the type and complexity of your matter. We discuss fee arrangements openly at your free consultation, before any work begins, so there are no surprises.

Private Consultation

Begin with a confidential conversation.

We respond within one business day. In-person, phone, and video consultations available.

Schedule a Private ConsultationCall (202) 505-6877
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